I’m frustrated with Apple. The company not the fruit. They make cool products but they also plan for them to be obsolete in a year or two. And if for some reason, they still work then they update it to the point that it no longer functions. Now don’t get me wrong. I am both an Apple fan and asupporter. I have a Mac desktop, laptop, iPhone, and iPad. I ran my laptop into the ground. It was great. But I have both an iPhone and an iPad that while not being the newest models, still work okay, except that with all the updates, they barely function. Half the apps on my iPad work, and my iPhone is so slow that it’s almost useless. Now, this isn’t an Apple bashing session. I suppose it’s just a different business model than artisans of the past. People used to take pride in their work, making things that would last. Now we make things that are very shiny, but are never intended to be long term.
As I was getting angry about my Apple products, it started me thinking about other things where this can be true as well. Ministry, for example. It is really easy to get sucked into the idea that we have to have the biggest, loudest, coolest methods and machinery in our ministry, when we’re not really building things that will last. I think this is especially true in youth ministry. Sometimes we can try so hard to attract students, thinking we must use so many tricks to keep their attention, that we can fail to really grow disciples. There is a reason that many students leave the church when they go to college. They have not grown into a mature faith.
Another area is parenting. It is so easy to focus on today. I have a tendency to want to pursue immediate obedience, possibly at the cost of what would actually be best for my kids. One decision that causes immediate change might hurt our relationship, closing the door to future influence. It is easy to want a child to act a certain way, but I might not be helping them become the kind of person that would choose that path.
I just wonder in our lives what decisions do we make that cause today to be better or easier instead of investing in something that lasts.
Thoughts?
Todd
Ramrodding with rules is easier and more simplistic than leading with wisdom and patience. Rabbi Noah Weinberg’s tapes are gold. You will love them. I drove from Nashville to Elizabethtown, Ky last Thursday. I got off work at 5:00 and made it in time for your first song. It was good to become familiar with you as the person in that little space of time (and Jason as well). That is why I suggest Mr. Weinberg’s tape. He is Christian but he has a wealth of wisdom.
Quality over anything. I’d rather help one person grow in faith, even if it takes my whole life, than have shared fleeting moments with thousands of people who in two years time would forget about God and go on with their lives, acting as if they have not already received the greatest gift of all. I say think long term, always!
Well said Todd. I have 3 kids all girls ages 2 to 14 I also own all Apple products in my home some old some new. You are so right about the updates slowing things down. My girls mean so much to me parenting is the hardest job I’ve ever had. I want to create good lasting memories with them from now on. I hope and pray the decisions I make from yesterday and now on will make that possible, In Jesus name, Amen.
Oh I almost forgot I look forward to seeing you in Turlock soon
CS Lewis emphasizes that we are, after all, eternal–the character we develop, the spirit that is formed in this life is what we live with forever. Perhaps it is useful to remember that as Christians what we train in ourselves, in our children, and in others will affect them and us for eternity.
As a child of a perfect Father, I’m so glad God doesn’t demand immediate obedience from me. Of course, He desires obedience but thankfully He offers generous mercy when I make foolish choices or openly rebel. It is His unfailing love that pursues me and makes me want to obey with my whole heart. Love is the key to obedience and lasting relationship. It’s much more powerful than force.
Lack of knowing (Daddy) causes (PERFORMANCE).
Very nice blog here! Thank you!
I love Apple too. I too, have noticed my iPhone getting slower. Todd is describing is an economic rule they don’t teach in college, “Intrinsic Obsolescence” . Product sustainability is inverse to economic growth. This idea shows us that we must be transformed by the renewing of our minds. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eTdseBKbWAE